Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)
They had us come to Marrs today for the walkathon son, they done it this year in your memory, they raised a lot of money for the school, your senior class, diabetes reasearch. A lot of your close friends were there doing the walk. Tomorrow night is the prom, I know your would have been going with Sam if you were still with us, but since you had to leave early you will have to watch this from your heavenly grandstand. Please watch over your friends tomorrow night son, I pray that God keeps them all safe. Your abscence weighs so heavy on my heart son, I'm not sure I will ever learn to deal with your being gone. As always save ol DAD a place. Close

Missing You  / Stephi Rhodes (Best Friends :) )
Jd I still miss you babe. Everyday is still tough, expecially since graduation is around the corner. I know your watching over us though and that we'll see you real soon. I love you. Close

Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)
I wish I knew what I could do to ease the pain I'm going through right now son, I just wish I could see your face, see that smile, those dimples, that laugh, just one more time. It seems that every month your leaving comes full circle once again and I have to deal with it all over again. Not being able to pick at you and cut up like we always did, Lord how I miss that, I miss the way you use to tell me I will kick your butt Ol man. I know I will get to see your smiling face again, but until then I am left to endure the anguish of your abscence, as always save ol DAD a place. Close

Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)

The memories son, everywhere I turn, everything I do, there are so many memories of you, they never seem to stop, it seems sometimes they dominate my thoughts, I truly miss you more everyday, I only wish I could have talked to you before you left us, your mother and sister still struggle with your leaving us, your sister got on the site for the first time and it really upset her, shes just not ready to see all the pics and other things that are here. As always save ol dad a place, we never know what our time scale will be, I look forward to seeing your smiling face when God says it's my time to go, love you more everyday, DAD

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I'm sorry for your loss  / Samantha (None)
I am so sorry for the loss of your most precious Jeremy "JD". He seems like a wonderful young man and I can't imagine the pain that you are going through seeing as I have never lost a child myself. I can relate to how his friends feel because I have lost four close friends of mine in the last year and a half. It is a feeling no one should ever have to bear. I will pray for you and keep you in my thoughts. May God surround you and your precious family in his warm and tender love to bring you peace and comfort until you can see your wonderful "JD" again. Close

Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)
I stopped by your grave again this morning son, they have finally got the pics up on your marker, it tore me up, it's like another chapter that seems like it's taken so long to write. The pics look so good, but I would much rather been able to hug your neck and tell you how proud of you I am. I cried all the way home, I tried to hide it from mom and sis, but I didn't do so good, your mom picked up on it right away. I know God knows what he's doing and I will never get in a position to question his authority, but like I said before it's getting increasingly harder to keep my promise to him. So much has taken place since you left us, most things good, but some bad, I won't talk about them here, I'll talk to you about them when I get to see you again, save ol dad a place, Love DAD Close

Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)
I had to go to town this afternoon son, I stopped by your grave as I do so many times, I don't think it ever gets any easier, it just seems like a bad dream I wish I could wake up from. Like just seems so void without you here with us, we all miss you so terribly, I have really been having a struggle lately, I'm doing my best to hold it together, just thinking about your not being here and I start to cry, I do my best to not let your mother and sister see it, I don't want them upset. I wish I could get a grasp on why you had to leave us, I know I promised God I wouldn't ask why, but it's getting increasingly harder to keep that promise, it just all seems so unfair, all these young men and women whom you went to school with will all get to realize their dreams and you don't. Time is going by so quickly and mentally I just can't think about much outside of you, I cherish the memories, the last day I got to spend with you the day of the crash, all the good talks we had, I will never forget them. I will perservere son, I will make it through because I know your cheering me on every step of the way, as always save ol dad a place, I love you more everyday and miss you even more, DAD Close

Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)
Your sister took her second deer yesterday evening son I wished so much that you could have been here to see it, but I know God had greater plans that can't be questioned. The first thing she asked me was if I thought you would be proud of her and if I thought you were watching her while she hunted, I told her absolutely. We all miss you so terribly son, your mother is starting to do better, but she still struggles with your loss as do we all and your sister still can't talk about you without starting to cry, we love and miss you and know that we will get to see you again, but it's in Gods time, Love DAD Close

((JD)) / Aimee Stilwell (6 of 8 )
JD::: I think about you so much. I think about our accident and about that nite as if it only happened yesturday. Sometimes I get these feelings that there is something that could be done, and everything would go back to how it was before ; but then i come back to earth and realize that there is nuthing I can do to change any of this. I talk to your father frequently, and he has helped me to try to understand that this is all GODs plan, yet still I what to know why??
 At times all this doesnt even seem real, but when i go past the cemetary I am reminded that all this isnt just a bad nightmare , it is reality!! I love you JD and you will always be a part of me!! Close

Missing You  / Roger Ervin (Father)
I miss you so much every day son, oh what I wouldn't give just to be able to talk with you again. I'm doing everything I can son to hold it together, I feel as though I'm coming apart at the seams. I know your smiling down on me daily and that brings some comfort, but just to be able to see you again if only for a few minutes. Oh how I wish I could rewind the time clock and put things back to where they were, but I can't, so for now son I'm gonna keep on keepin on, knowin that someday I will see you again, until thing as always save me a place. Love DAD Close

Angles Are Always There!  / Shirley Tuttle
Prayers for JD, his wonderful family, and friends.  Bless you, JD sweet
Angel.  You are very much loved by everyone.
  


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Missing You  / Roger Ervin (DAD)
Thanksgiving came and went son, the day was so hard on all of us, I couldn't help but think of you, I still miss you so terribly son, I have been trying so hard to fight through this, but your loss weighs on me so heavily, only God knows where I am right now, it's soon to be seven months since you left us, it's still seems like a dream, one I wished I could wake up from. I love you more every day and I can't wait to see your smiling face son, save me a place, Love DAD Close

You are in my prayers  / Michelle Maddox (Friend)
My husband is a football coach at Jenks High School and found your website. He was very touched by the site and he passed the address on to me.  He knows all to well this hit home for me.

I am 27 years old and 15 years ago I lost my sister.  She was 8 years old.  We are also from Skiatook.  Her name is Sandy Williams.  I will tell you there are days it feels like it was years ago we were together playing in our "toy room".  There are days I feel it was yesterday when I last heard her laugh.  Everyday I miss her with all my heart.  

There are no words that I can say that will compensate for your loss and the hurt that your family is feeling.  I can only say I am truly sorry for your loss. 

After we lost Sandy my mom prayed that God would show her what Sandy was doing in Heaven. God reveals himself to us in ways that outsiders may think is crazy, but God showed us very clearly that Sandy was dancing for Him in Heaven.  I know beyond a shadow of a doubt she is dancing on the streets of gold.

My family and I will continue to lift your family up on our prayers.  I pray that God will give you a peace that can only come from Him.  God is so good - all the time.

I have heard many great things about your son.  How awesome is it that everyone knew he was a great kid.  Who knows maybe he and Sandy are  friends in Heaven.  I would like to think so:)

In His Name, 

Michelle Maddox (Williams)

 


 

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You are a Wonderful Man JD!!!  / Leslie Barnes (Friend)
I remember Growing up with JD from 1st Grade Up. Him and I shared the same Birthday September 19th 1987. He was such a good friend to me and everyone else in School. We all miss you down here JD. But, I do know that you are walking the streets of gold. Which all of us will be up there with you some day. Thank you for being a wonderful Friend... You mean the world to Skiatook. And We all Love you. You will always be my friend. Leslie Close

to the family  / Heather Sweeney (friend)
 In the short time I got to know your son he had made a great impact on me, family.. In May when JD passed My high school did a moment of silence for him.. Also 2 months early to the day at the exact time my father died.. I only wish i could have said goodbye but it was too late when i did... May God grant your family the peace and the sense of calm.. I have know idea what you all are going through losing a son... if there is anything i can do let me know... I knew JD loved God with all his heart and his family and sports were everything to him.. He was one of the most sweetest boys , he always knew how to make you laugh and he cried with you when you needed to cry.. He has left a great legacy. It will live on all though he may not be here with you he is spiritually,,      GOD BLESS  Close

to jd and his family  / Jonathan Pebley (iam not related i wish i was though )
iam so sorry for your loss i seen he was a great athlete and he will be missed i will miss bradley laufer he was a great man also i bet jd was a great man also and leader iam so sorry for your loss though rest in peace jd amen Close

Missing you  / Roger Ervin (Father)
It's just not the same without you here son, time has gone by so quickly since you left us, your sister is doing so much better, she too misses you greatly. The football helmet they gave us with your signature on it holds a special meaning to all of us, your sister has it in her room on her dresser she wants to keep it there. Football season has come and gone and it was so painful to watch son, the boys just couldn't get things together, I know you were cheering them on, but for whatever reason they just couldn't put it together. Your sister is doing very well in basket ball, the coaches were very impressed with her game, she needs this boost right now more than ever. We love you and miss you, as always save me a place, Love DAD Close

I HEARD THE ANGELS SAY...  / Maria Boone (Elijah's Mommy )

I thought I saw your face today,
in the sparkle of the morning sun.
And then I heard the angel say,
"Their work on earth is done."

I thought I heard your voice today,
then laugh your hearty laugh.
And then I heard the angel say,
"There's peace dear one at last."

I thought I felt your touch today,
in the breeze that rustled by.
And then I heard the angel say,
"The spirit never dies."

I thought I saw my broken heart,
in the crescent of the moon.
And then I heard the angel say,
"The Lord is coming soon."

I thought that you had left me,
for the stars so far above.
And then I heard the angel say,
"They left you with their love."

I thought that I would miss you so,
and never find my way.
And then I heard the angel say,
"They're with you every day."
"The sun, the wind, the moon, the stars,
will forever be around,
reminding you of the love you shared,
and the peace they've finally found

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WE REMEMBER THEM...  / Maria Boone (Elijah's Mommy )

From the Gates of Repentance
New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe
Author Unknown

At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.

At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter, We remember them.

At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.

At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.

At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.

At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.

When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.

When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.

When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them

When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.

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sorry / Passerby (none)
i am so sorry for the loss of your son.i lost my brother he was 23yrs old. i see what heartache it causes my mom and dad and myself. there really is nothing that can take away the pain. its so hard. i hope that u can take comfort in knowing as long as you all live he will be in you hearts and his spirit will always be with u. Close